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Community Rules
DearNever is for real unsent letters from real people. Keep it human, safe, and anonymous.
Before you post
- 1Real letters only
- 2No AI-written posts
- 3No personal information
- 4No fictional characters
Allowed
- Real emotions
- Unsent letters
- Anonymous signatures
- Names without doxxing
- Messages to real people, yourself, or real moments
Not allowed
- AI-generated posts
- Fictional characters
- Phone numbers, addresses, emails, or private personal info
- Full names with identifying context
- Hate speech
- Threats or violent content
- Spam, ads, or promo
- Illegal content
- Doxxing
- Harassment
Moderation
Every letter is reviewed before it appears. We may reject, hide, or remove posts that break the rules.
Your control
After posting, you get a delete key. Save it if you might want to remove your letter later. You can delete it anytime from the delete page.
If you are in crisis
DearNever is not a substitute for emergency or professional help. If you might hurt yourself or someone else, contact local emergency services or a crisis hotline now.
In the US, call or text 988.